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The Golden Rule

I have a personal philosophy where I like to treat others the way I’d want to be treated. It is called the golden rule. But it is not easy, it is painful and hard. I have to stay consciously committed to it and I won’t lie and say that I have mastered the art or… Continue reading The Golden Rule

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Mo’ Grace is 1

Congratulations Adams my darling, we made it through the first year! Yippee! Isn’t she lovely. . . You know how they say that a woman forgets the travails of pregnancy & birth at the sight of her child? Yyeeeeeaaaahhhhhh! Lol. I had a tough time when I was pregnant with you, Grace. I started throwing… Continue reading Mo’ Grace is 1

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Our Lives and Times

There was a time in my life when I decided I wasn’t ever going to get married. Much of what I’d seen in marriages, my parent’s marriage included, was just people who wanted to kill themselves but had to stay together because of the children. Always because of the children. Always together, forever apart.

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It’s the big 30! Yaaaayyy!

Where did all the years go?! This is the age my siblings and I referred to as ‘old’ when we were little girls. In some ways, I don’t feel old and in some other ways, I am an old sage, maybe even a wise sage… I miss being young 🙂 I love birthdays. I believe… Continue reading It’s the big 30! Yaaaayyy!

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Love by St. Augustine

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness,… Continue reading Love by St. Augustine

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Tears in my eyes (The Cindy Story Series) Part 4

So, we have finally come to the end of this series. Please let me and Dare know what you thought of it by leaving your comments before you go 🙂 Danke. Please read the first part here – Tears in my eyes (The Cindy Story Series) And the second part here – Tears in my eyes (The Cindy… Continue reading Tears in my eyes (The Cindy Story Series) Part 4

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Her Grandma’s Love

She went to see her grandma over the holidays. She never used to have the liberty to go see her grandma whenever she wanted because her parents would not let her. She was told her grandma was a very wicked woman who had killed her son and also dabbled in diabolical activities. The woman scared… Continue reading Her Grandma’s Love